Stress and pregnancy
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Key facts
- Stress is a normal reaction to a major change, such as pregnancy.
- Too much stress can be overwhelming and could even lead to health problems for both for you and your baby.
- There are many strategies you can use to manage stress during pregnancy.
- If you are struggling with significant stress during pregnancy, talk about this with your doctor or midwife.
What is stress?
is a common and normal response to challenging or new situations. Stress has both mental and physical aspects. When you are stressed, your body releases stress such as . This brings on physical changes in your body, which help you respond to the stressful situation.
Stress becomes a chronic condition when it compromises quality of life and creates limitations, or if you feel overwhelmed and unable to cope. When this happens, it is important to take steps to to ensure that you can function well and look after your health and your baby’s health.
What can cause stress in pregnancy?
For some people, finding out that they are pregnant can be a stressful experience. You might feel like you have lost control or don’t have enough resources to manage what you’ll be experiencing.
Stress can come from:
- having a pregnancy that is unplanned or unwanted
- becoming pregnant after previous negative experiences with a pregnancy, birth or parenthood, such as a miscarriage or the death of a baby
- waiting for the results of your antenatal tests
- dealing with the physical changes of pregnancy or a complicated pregnancy
Your situation at home may cause you stress, such as:
- being a single parent or teenager and wondering how you will manage
- relationship difficulties, which could include family violence
- practical challenges, such as financial difficulties, moving house and job changes
Emotions such as , past anxiety, depression or other , can cause more stress during pregnancy, as can and alcohol problems.
If more than one of these events happen to you at the same time, you could experience even more stress.
How can stress affect my baby and me?
Chronic (ongoing) stress can affect your health or wellbeing, and can cause headaches and problems sleeping.
Some people might also experience:
- obsessive thoughts
- worry or
- (too much or too little food, or the wrong types of food)
- trouble or
Chronic stress could also cause problems for your baby. If stress is not managed well, there may be effects on your unborn baby’s growth and the length of your pregnancy (gestation). The risk of problems in your baby’s future physical and mental development may also increase, as well as behavioural issues in childhood.
How do I know if I'm too stressed?
The point where stress becomes a problem is different for everyone — it varies from person to person. If you are concerned or unsure that stress is the problem, it is important to seek help and advice with a health professional. You might also look out for clues, such as:
- emotional and mental features:
- feeling overwhelmed or unable to cope
- or unable to stop worrying
- difficulty concentrating
- , or anger
- thoughts of or
- physical and behavioural signs:
- changes in sleep patterns, feeling exhausted
- physical reactions, such as , muscle tension, upset stomach
- reliance on to cope
How can I reduce stress during pregnancy?
During pregnancy, it’s important to look after your mental wellbeing as much as your physical health. When you feel well, content and relaxed, you are better at managing stress.
To reduce stress, you could try the following:
- Notice what triggers your stress and how you feel when stressed.
- Try to slow down, rest and not put too much pressure on yourself.
- Eat a healthy, well-balanced diet to help keep you and your baby healthy.
- about your concerns and feelings.
Physical activity and relaxation can also help to reduce stress:
- Take part in regular pregnancy-safe exercise.
- Try yoga, , breathing exercises or relaxation through classes, apps, videos or podcasts.
- Enjoy a favourite hobby, read, or watch TV as a distraction.
- Spend time with people who make you feel calm.
You don’t have to cope alone. Ask for help when you need it and accept offers to help you.
When should I see my doctor?
If you have tried relaxation techniques and reaching out to someone you trust, but still feel overwhelmed, check in with your doctor, your midwife or a . Be sure to attend all your regular antenatal health appointments — . You can also call a for support.
Stress is not a diagnosis but a sign that something else is going on. Chronic stress could indicate depression, anxiety or another . GPs and can recognise when stress means you need extra support, so don’t hesitate to reach out for advice.
Resources and support
If you need more help to manage your stress, you can contact:
- your GP, who can help you or you to a or
- your obstetrician or midwife
- on 1300 726 306
- on 1300 22 4636
- (1800 737 732) for confidential information, counselling and support for people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence
- for resources, articles and a list of phone Apps, as well as telephone counselling
- , for free professional phone and online counselling to men
Here are some other things to try:
- Download the for young people.
- Visit Beyond Blue for more information on .
- Learn how to deal with stress with .
- Sign up for , which aims to reduce stress and anxiety.
Looking for information for Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander people?
- Contact for free and confidential services run by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander People. Call 13 92 76.
- Black Dog Institute has for Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander people.
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- THIS WAY UP has , available in a range of community languages.
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Last reviewed: August 2024